A long, long time ago, I still remember in 1697, the playwright and poet William Congreve sat down to mash up his latest offering for adoring fans. He put quill pen to paper and produced The Mourning Bride. Not the most catchy of titles, but it does contain the immortal couplet, ‘Music hath charms to soothe a savage breast’. It also softens rocks and (un)bends knotted oaks. For those of you not into the English of this early period, the reference to a ‘savage breast’ has nothing to do with a ferocious Amazon warrior threatening to remove her bra. It only describes a racing heart beat (without any assistance being necessary from an Amazon).

Even in those days, music was considered great therapy. You could chill out to a lute or string quartet. Just gather a few musicians together, let them start up a tune, and your rock would soften and your knots dissolve. Moving into modern times, anxiety disorders are one of the most common complaints and the sale of medication to control anxiety represents big business. Despite the best efforts of the pharmaceutical industry that would prefer all to bow down and worship at the altar of their latest products, some researchers do actually look for alternative methods of treatment.

One of the more recent studies looked at the effectiveness of different types of massage The good news was that, regardless of the type, massage sessions were effective in reducing stress levels. Participants were given ten one-hour sessions and the improvement in their mood lasted for more than three months. In part, the explanation for this level of success is that the social interaction between the physical therapist and the patients helps to lift the mood. People find the one-to-one sessions of physical contact and talk relaxing and a constructive way of resolving problems. This is why the nature of the massage technique was proved irrelevant. Any form of rubbing has the same emotional effect. But this was not all good news. The researchers also found the same results among groups of people who did nothing more than listen to gentle music. Obviously, this is the cheapest kind of self-help therapy.

To test out the potential role of music, three further groups were created. One listened to music during a set of ten, one-hour massage sessions. The second was wrapped in a cocoon of warm towels (for the record, this is called thermotherapy) while music played. The third sat or lay quietly in their own homes, breathing deeply and thinking relaxing thoughts as the music played. There was no difference in the degree of benefit flowing from the three groups. All showed good levels of response and lower levels of anxiety. Put another way, despite their best efforts to find research evidence to favor professional services, the best value-for-money treatment was people relaxing to music in the peace of their own homes.

Of course, if anxiety levels remain at a troublesome high, there is always valium which, over a short period of time, will calm the savage breast and unknot your oak. But, no matter how effective valium may be, the best long-term treatment for generalized anxiety disorder or social disorder is relaxation to gentle music. It seems Congreve was right. So check through your CD collection or the contents of your iPod and find the music that works best for you.

The mechanism of male erection is so sophisticated and complex that there’s no big surprise that sometimes it goes not as good as you’d wish to. Still, having problems with getting and keeping a good hard erection form time to time is nothing to worry about, because it happens to all men, and it’s not impotence. A cause for concern is the situation when a man is having problems with erection in more than 25% of cases – that is what doctors start to call erectile dysfunction. ED can have various degrees of severity, ranging from ongoing problems with keeping the erection, early ejaculation to being completely unable to get an erection at all. But what is more important is that erectile dysfunction can have various causes, and by knowing which one has influenced impotence in every particular case is the key to treating the condition.

Erectile dysfunction can be a very strong signal, informing you that there’s something wrong in your body. It usually doesn’t take place on its own, being a side-effect of a much more serious condition. Erectile dysfunction is typically caused by two different sets of factors – psychological and physiological – which require their own ways of treatment. So before you engage in any practices or consider using medications, you first have to define what the root of your problem is.

Psychological causes for ED are probably the most widespread, because things like stress, anxiety and depression are met more often these days. Treating erectile dysfunction caused by such conditions can be relatively easy, because it usually doesn’t involve any strong drugs or complicated medical procedures. However, when treating these conditions with certain anti-anxiety drugs and antidepressants you have to be careful, because they may be causing ED as a side-effect. So make sure to consult with a doctor or a pharmacist before starting a course of treatment.

Physiological causes for male impotence include a very wide range of conditions, which are primarily related to the health of blood vessels and nervous tissue in the penile area. Having diabetes, blood pressure problems, heard diseases, high cholesterol levels, kidney or liver diseases, recent surgical operations, cancer treatment or prostate problems will raise the likelihood of developing erectile dysfunction. This is where addressing the condition on its own, especially when it has been around for a long time, is not enough and using drugs such as Viagra is encouraged.

Lifestyle and habits can also be the cause for erectile dysfunction. It is a well known fact that alcohol abuse and heavy smoking influence the development of impotence in men, and the longer you follow these habits, the harder it will be getting back healthy erections after you’re done. Shifting towards a healthier lifestyle, following a low-calorie diet, exercising and getting enough sleep can sometimes be a lot more effective than using Viagra, because a healthy lifestyle will improve the overall state of your body and not just the ability to have sex. So before you buy Viagra online, revise the way you treat your body everyday and see if there are some changes to be done.

The marketers are out in force these days. They want to convince everyone that there is a pill to cure all ills. Oral medications are convenient for the patient. Just swallow and wait for results. They are profitable for the doctors because it takes only a minute to write out a prescription and wheel in the next patient. If you have to talk to the patients, this is fewer patients per day and less profit. It’s great for the pharmaceutical industry. Just press the “go” button on the machines in the factory to make the pills and watch the money roll into the bank account. But, as a country, do we really want everyone to be dependent on pills? Surely there must be a better way of delivering treatment to those who need it. Well, in the question lies the answer. The most effective treatments deal with the patient as a human being with a problem instead of a piece of meat to be pacified and sent away with a pill. This is not to say that pills cannot and do not provide effective relief. The drugs used to treat anxiety are safe and effective. But all the major clinical trials show that cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) produces better results than drugs. So what is CBT?

If you have an anxiety disorder, you should be the focus of attention. You need to move from a negative mindset to a positive outlook on life. Let’s take each of the letters in turn:

c = cognitive. Cognition is the process of thinking. It deals with beliefs, opinions and all the other emotions and ideas that run around inside our heads. The problem with anxiety is that you see the future and fear the worst. It’s great to have foresight. It helps you avoid danger. But you need a sense of proportion. Not everything is really dangerous, not everything has to be perfect, so you need to learn new priorities. Stop the automatic fear response. Slow down and think about the world more carefully. With a little determination, you can be more focused, avoid anger and frustration, and build a better outlook.

b= behavior. This is what you do and this is your chance to put that new world view into practice. When you have learned the new skills of relaxation, you have to confront the real-world situations where you have felt anxious. No more hiding away. You have to destress, grow calm and find peace as you try to reach your goals.

t = therapy where a guide teaches you coping skills so you can heal and recover from all that negative emotion and find new purpose and optimism. This is not teaching you to be less anxious. It’s teaching you to be more self-confident.

Nothing in CBT denies a role for xanax. It’s a great drug for the relief of anxiety over the short term. In fact, using xanax helps to calm your mind and make you more responsive to the therapy. As your mind slowly changes around to a positive way of thinking, you can ease off on the drug and allow yourself to start living life afresh. Let your new self-confidence crowd out the old fears and leave your mind calm.

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Fat Burner is the kind of product Ms Michaels should be going out of her way to run down. It’s marketed using the traditional claim: just pop two of our pills before a meal and you will lose weight. No matter how much you eat, no matter how little you exercise, you will lose weight. Yes, it’s another of those magic pills. Worse, the pills actually contain citrus aurantium which is on the list of suspect substances put out by the FDA because its use is associated with a rise in blood pressure. Indeed, for the last five years, there has been litigation between the FDA and the two companies that manufacture and market these pills, Basic Research and Thin Care International, a company owned by Ms Michaels. To this litigation is not added two new actions alleging false claims about Fat Burner.

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